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New Havanese owner needs reassurance

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#1 ·
Hi, I have been reading this site for awhile waiting to find my Havanese. Well, I got her today.

She is 2 1/2 years old and came from a breeder who said she made it quite clear she did not want to be a mom. Apparently she teased the males and then at the critical moment, would roll onto her back and wave her feet in the air, thus making it all impossible for the male dog.

Anyway, she is here next to me. My problem is she will stay exactly where I put her. She won't walk around outside or inside. She won't eat or drink. She did pee once about 3 hours ago when I brought her home.

Supposedly she is not housebroken and she was supposed to be socialized by owner's children. I was told she is shy and takes awhile to warm up to strangers. Quite un - Hav - like, right? She does not seem to know her name.

She is adorable, white with black ears and some black spots on her back.

I think she was traumatized by the 2 1/2 hour car ride here. She vomited in the car in her crate on the way.

Do I just keep talking to her and keep watching her to see if she needs to go outside? Please talk to me.
 
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#772 ·
glad you're out of there. I was just about to email Hazel to see what's going on. lol. Maggie is just playing hard to get lol. You keep yourself on here once in a while. We get worried when we don't hear from you. No hiding ,cause I'll track you down. We could use some more pictures too. :biggrin1:
 
#774 ·
Wow. I joined this forum a couple days ago, and just finished reading through this thread. Kay, you've had me laughing and crying like I'm stuck in the middle of a Nicholas Sparks novel. It's quite the journey you've had with your Maggie. I'm very saddened by your last few posts, though, and pray that everything works out.
 
#775 ·
It is so sad to receive this letter from Kay's friend Hazel. I will keep in touch with her and keep this thread going in loving memory of Kay and Maggie. They touched our hearts and they certainly touched mine. God bless you Kay . Thanks for being such an inspiration . Maggie is in good hands. Rest peacefully. Love Dave and Molly. Here is Hazel's letter.

Hi Dave, I'm typing this with a broken and heavy heart. Kay passed away Friday evening. I am so blessed to have known Kay and will miss her terribly. She was a strong and very wonderful woman. Maggie is a little confused but I keep talking to her, maybe one day she will understand that she is loved and will start to feel safe with me.
 
#776 ·
Rest in peace Kay. One day you and Maggie will be reunited but until then she is in good hands with Hazel. We all should learn a lesson from this friendship. Our dogs need someone who they are comfortable with if we are ever faced with an emergency. I swapped dog watching with a friend for years. My friend passed away from breast cancer and I took her Tasha and she lived with me until she went to the Rainbow Bridge. I know my friend was there to greet her dear old friend. Now I have a neighbor who lost her dog a few years ago. She doesn't want a dog of her own but really enjoys her "vacations" with Lily. Make arrangements for your dogs in advance. You'll both be grateful if the time comes.
 
#777 ·
I am so sad to hear this. Kay was a wonderful part of this forum. I am so thankful that Kay got to spend her last days knowing that all the hard work with Maggie had paid off and she has given this little pup the ability to love someone again. I hope Hazel will join the forum and give us updates on Maggie.
With Love...Alexa and Marley
 
#778 ·
I didn't know Kay when she started this thread but had since read her "novel" and was so moved and touched by it. I am so saddened by this news for both Kay and Maggie and although we can no longer support Kay, I hope that we will be updated by Hazel on Maggie's transition. Both Kay and Maggie are fortunate to have such a wonderful friend. RIP Kay and some day you and Maggie will meet again on that rainbow bridge.
 
#780 ·
Kay is testament to being a wonderful Mommy - her consideration of Maggie was always foremost in her mind....how wonderful that at the end she received recognition from Maggie and knows that she will continue to do well with her friend Hazel. Rest in peace....
 
#785 · (Edited)
I have been away and just had the opportunity to read Dave's posting. I remember reading Kay's first post and have followed her and Maggie's story since. Kay was a model for so many of us: kind, funny, consistent, super patient, determined, loving........although I never knew her personally, I will miss her and her love for Maggie.
Maggie, you now have an angel looking out for you! Kay, it was an honor to have shared your story in this forum. Hazel, thank you for your love of Kay and Maggie. Maggie, is a lucky little girl to have you.
 
#787 ·
yeah ,I'm still waiting for Hazel to join. She said she was so if nothing soon , I'll give her an email. Nice post Joyce.
 
#790 ·
here is Hazels letter again as I posted it on another recent thread too. But I wanted to post it here where Maggie and Kay's story began.

"Hi Dave, It's good to hear from you. Things are moving along, Maggie now runs to the door when I come home, tail wagging, and very excited to see me, she lays down and insists I rub her belly right there in front of the door, (It's the best feeling in the world).When I would call her to go out she would not move so I was carrying her to the door when she needed to go out, then I tried walking behind her to the door, and 3 days ago I went to the door and called her and TA! DA! drum roll please she came and has been doing so ever since. Baby steps. I'm about finished with Kay's house, so hopefully it will be put on the market by the middle of May. I miss her so much and I know she would be so pleased to see the changes in Maggie. Maggie and I spend a lot of special time together. The forum isn't out of the question, just haven't taken the time to learn something new. I'm sure after May I will have time. Thank you for reaching out to me".
 
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