OK. Since I am in a witchy mood and on a role. I am taking input for a book I am writing. It is called "Just say Sorry and shut your mouth." It is a book to help people learn what to say when they talk to someone who just lost a child, spouse, significant other, etc.
You don't even have to buy the book. Just read the cover - it says it all.
If you read my post in "introduce yourself", you know last year sucked for me and my family. But people amaze me about what they say to me. Now don't get me wrong, when dealing with death people get nervous and say the wrong thing. But some people need a license to talk.
You can have another child or find another husband/wife/partner is top on my list!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Then you have the medical know-it-all that make you question everything you did. UGH.
Sorry for the post but I am just bursting at the seems with people's stupidity. But really, I am writing a book. It will also have some humor in it too! Like the priest that asked us jeopardy questions during the most difficult time. Everything he said was in the form of a question. What are you going to do now? Pray......Who are you going to pray too?
The best was he said, "My mother lost two children. Oh, she did go insane though." So, see even people who should know what to say even goof it up." Well he is some what right. Now I am a crazy Havanese lady.......... I just got a have one........and not just one........
Really, I am writing a book. Actually I have a few books even a children's book circling in my head. My plan is to write and quit my pencil pushing job. Then I can stay home with my Havanese and volunteer at local hospitals as a pet therapy team. Maybe if I get a bunch of Havanese, we can put a show on for the kids.......