I understand what you are saying! It seems like Gucci will sleep with one eye open all the time, and will always wake up from her naps and follow me to the laundry room or upstairs to take a shower. Even when I run to the market for milk, she waits patiently at the front door for me to come home (even if there are other people home!) *sigh*
I do know their whole lives seem to revolve around us! And it is comforting in the sense that they love us so deeply, but at the same time, we love them and want them to have fun.
Even at night, seems like she is "on call" to protect us. She is the best watchdog we've ever had and will alert us as soon as someone drives up in the driveway! It's quite impressive. My DH loves that she's so in tune with everything that is going on.
Last night, was quite rough! lol, the fireworks had her barking like crazy for 3 hours! yikes. She finally calmed down and slept peacefully curled up next to my pillow/face all night. Glad I gave her a bath yesterday!
But, yes, the havenese seem to be a very codependent breed. They like to be right there entrenched in whatever is going on, solitude seems like torcher to them.
But don't feel guilty, its just how they are wired. To love, and to be a companion........its intrinsic to their nature. The world revolves around you in their minds