I'm glad you brought this up, I have been talking to someone off the forum, that is no longer posting, who is really disappointed in the 'lack of affection' and some other problems that she's having with her Hav (which she was told she wouldn't have) and the dog is almost a year old and still having "problems"...but she feels like nobody else is and a little displaced here
Is Gryff more affectionate towards you? I think they tend to really attach themselves to *one* person, but will generally "warm up" to the other family members over time.
My girl is pretty affectionate, but that is mostly directed towards me, now she will give attention to the husband or kids, but not as often. I think some Havs are more "lap" lovers more than others, or will atleast stay within reach of you.
I'm sorry to hear your husband is disappointed
I know my husband is sometimes jealous that Gucci is so attached to me, he'll make comments occasionally about her not giving him enough/any attention even though she does! But like at night, she prefers to lay on my chest or right next to me...and he'll call her over, but she'll ignore him. Definately a "mamas girl".